[quote=“Damocles”]Hey Everyone,
I hope this continues to be an avenue of discussion rather than some kind of pitched battle.
Now we cut to Crucible. I’m two games in. My character is very fun, and I feel a lot of potential for good story. I get involved with the stuff I want to get involved with, and ignore the stuff I find boring. There seems to be a lot more drama than I saw in Teonn, mostly because of the factional aspect of the game, and that’s taken a while for me to get used to. Bleed is real I guess, and definitely turns very rational people into dickheads from time to time. I won’t say I’m not guilty of that a bit. Like I said, it’s a new dynamic that I only feel I’ve really got my head around very lately.
I guess it really comes down to why you LARP. I can understand that if your goal really is for your faction to win, then you’d be upset at missing opportunities. If your goal is to have a great experience at the game and to share that experience with others, then I don’t see the disadvantage in missing a few events here and there. Hell, even missing XP wouldn’t substantially impair my ability to have a decent game, but I’m not as system-crunchy as some.
I like the idea of a simplified Downtime, mostly because I don’t see much point in the personal actions and stuff to begin with. It’s never been very satisfying to me to get randomly given rewards or punished by the roll of a dice or because of a strange mechanic I wasn’t aware of. What’s far more satisfying is to get hurt or helped in character, at a game.
All Crucible all the time bugs me a little I guess. My wife and I took a few months out from the facebook groups and such, and it was a really nice two months. I definitely came back from it more energised and ready to roleplay.
I also don’t really understand the access thing. A bunch of us in Alteraan got quite upset at the idea that we were regarded as the ‘GM favourites’ because a lot of them were friends or workmates of ours, so we asked the GMs if we really did have a substantial advantage over the other groups. We were told we definitely didn’t - we (at the time, which was probably about 3 months ago, so should be about right), had less templates and secret stuff than several of the others (including Sachsenheim actually). In terms of Downtime, well, we just had our home base burned to the ground, so if that’s what GM access gets you, I am moving to Wellington!
I suppose it’s just a case of perception. Maybe I am blind to it because I am on the good side? All I know is that I don’t really mind what form the GMs choose Crucible to take. If that means we only get one daygame between games, and I get to spend a weekend in Wellington every once in a while, that’s okay really isn’t it? We’ll roleplay for fun or have parties if we like, when we like, where we like.
I do feel like this is a bit of a storm in a tea-cup, borne of badly phrased facebook arguments and way too much passion directed in the wrong place.
As for the abuse? Point me at them and I’ll happily remove them from play myself. We’re all part of this community and have a responsibility to ensure people are treated with respect, even when we disagree.[/quote]
I’m reporting on the “private” abuse second-hand, but from people I trust not to make something out of nothing and not to get easily offended. But I can understand why they would be reluctant to come forward - I know I’ve held my tongue, because I don’t want to get a tongue lashing either. Because if the Facebook conversation last night showed anything, people who disagree do not get treated with respect.
Perception is a problem…I think it’s a bad sign when we can’t accept things on good faith, but I have been struggling a bit, but I think now that people are being a bit more open about it, I’m understanding a lot more, and tailoring (and apologising) where necessary. I hope other people will read this and do the same. This is my first PvP game, and, as I understand, one of the first to be run in New Zealand. I think that requires EVERYONE to examine how they are reacting, and I am not an exception at all.
It may be a bit of a storm in a teacup, but I think this has turned into a discussion worth having.
One of the problems I have with the “name and shame” solution is that “abuse” is that I’d prefer people to have the opportunity to apologise for stuff they made have said in the heat of the moment. Whether the person affected wants to take further action should be up to them - name and shame will just create more friction, and probably dissuade people from coming forward, because they’d fear further backlash.