Hello all! From a keen nelsonian

:stuck_out_tongue: good point.

In some cases, you may be able to take turns looking after baby and playing, or bring someone extra to babysit while you both play. In a few larps, it may be possible to have baby ā€œin characterā€ in the larp, especially if it’s not a live-combat larp.

It will depend on what the organisers of each larp are happy with. Some may not want the added complication of having babies present, but others will be happy with it so long as you ensure baby doesn’t disrupt play.

I could just imagine a baby in a larp… :laughing: im sure she’s fit right in… :stuck_out_tongue:

Yes, I suppose dryad is closer than tree. :slight_smile:

My partner doesn’t larp, so he looks after the kids when I’m away, and if he’s away too then they go stay at the grandparents. I don’t larp all the time, so mostly it works out. I cannot imagine bringing a baby to any of the games I’ve played so far, though I know some of those giant European ones have whole families encamped, including babies in tiny medieval baby gear.

If its still a baby, where they just eat and sleep and maybe smile, then they could be carried around. IF its up to crawling and toddling, then I would say no. Most other players don’t have babies and do not see the hazards that a parent has - like a ring of mail dropping off and becoming a choking hazard. My kids are now 10 & 12, and I feel are starting to be old enough to join in, but I pick and chose which event I think are suitable. A couple of other larpers have teenage kids joining in on a equal footing with other players. Another thing to consider is that there are many people without children who don’t like children and may view them as obstructive ( I know I use to, before I had my own). Also if a parent is taking time out from their own family to enjoy their own hobby on their own, getting to be just an adult, rather than a parent, kids around may not help. And then you need to ask whether the child would be able to be immersed ( and not just the costume) or will they get bored and interrupt, and try to get their parent and/or someone else attention. And then they need regular feeding, which doesn’t always happen at games. This is starting to sound a bit negative, sorry, its late and I’m starting to babble. In summary, I think you’ll enjoy it more if you get a babysitter and not have to worry about them.

I’d be interested to know what criteria you use and still end up taking them to ā€œFools Rush Inā€ :smiley:

My daughters are 6 and 8 and I think they’re a little young yet. I’m not sure how old Rouls kids are, but I’ve seen some excellent role playing from the elder two. Kane story telling at St Wolfgang and Lucretia playing a ghost at Nightmare Circle.

Again, it depends on the game. Most genres have children :unamused: so as Ryan says, it’s really up to the organisers.

I agree with Hannah, I like to NOT be a parent when I’m larping. Games like St Wolfgang’s and Knightshade aren’t usually suitable for babies. They often involve running battles, mud, slippery hillsides, loud scary monsters in the dark, lots of shouting and screaming, late nights and for the weekend games, highly irregular mealtimes.
Lucy had a pretend baby for one weekend game, just a foam doll. She found it so difficult to play that (out of character) she was really happy when it was kidnapped by demon worshippers. Admittedly, she’s not a parent in real life but still, it’s an indicator of how hard it would be to manage.

On a separate note:
Hannah’s kids had a blast at Fools Rush In, Derek. They even went charging back into the tunnels by themselves afterward. They weren’t a bit scared. :slight_smile:

Hannah’s kids are great - her son has done a bit of starwars stuff and it was great to watch the players faces as the angry local guards mowed both him and kim - who was playing his mother - down with heavy fire because they were caught having been infected with the same things the players were :smiley:

A look of stunned horror crossed several of their faces in a kind of ā€œthey would kill a child… we are totally screwedā€ kind of way.

I know and I fully approve of them playing and enjoyed their participation. I could just imagine Hannah sitting there with a list of larps deciding which were ā€œsuitableā€ā€¦

ā€œHmm, lets compare larps … Wolfgang’s with demons, devils, human sacrifice and people trying to corrupt the innocent vs Nightmare Circle, with possession, insanity and cannibalism vs Nightshade, which is a bit more wholesome, but has more combat / contact and the travel is furtherā€¦ā€

I’m reasonably permissive with what my kids get up to, the eldest has been through the same cave we used for Hell in the Inferno game and has gone parasailing. I wasn’t in any way disapproving of the kids playing. I just laughed at the ā€œpick and chose which event I think are suitableā€ comment :smiley:

Hi Derek, once I stopped laughing I figured your comments probably deserve a reply. :stuck_out_tongue:
Mainly is about logistics - what else they (and my husband) have on [we have lots of hobbies and our calender can get rather hectic at times], how late it will go [they haven’t done a sleepover larp yet and action tends to go rather late, and trying to get them to sleep with action going on …], how scary it will be, how tolerant are the GMs .

With the fools rush in Tigger had evolved plot around them being there. Also I didn’t know where we were playing and what else was happening, so in hindsight , especially with Josie’s reaction at the end, perhaps not what I would classify as appropriate, but then they had a great time, and no lasting repercussions - other than wanting to do more.

Way off topic but how many people are keen for their kids to larp? I am strongly contemplating a cut down variant (and I mean cut down) of Knightshade to run as a kids event in Hamilton (someone could run it in Auckland too). It would superficially resemble Mike C’s kids game even. Except that adults could in theory join in. Cross age larps work elsewhere, so I can’t see why not here. Except that it would be tuned for kids.
Its come about as I see a glaring hole for larps in the 8-14 years category. I say from 8 because I feel that is a suitable starting age.
Not saying younger kids can’t handle it but having viewed kids in Mike’s kids game and my own kids at larps (in which they weren’t meant to be involved), I think 8 is a good start point.

Its something I am looking at after my kids have pestered me to go to more larps. So who would be keen?

Um me, if fits in with our other stuff. :slight_smile: I think it’s a good age bracket to work with.

I think that once Alice is a lot lot older i dont see any problem as long as its not a late night game with too many adult themes!

On a different note i think i may have convinced my partner to go to chimera next year!

Bravo! See you there!