The recent discussion about the Pink Headband rule that we are instituting for Crucible has caused a lot of discussion about the roles of people who are unable to take part in boffer combat due to physical disability. The fact that talk immediately sprang to “what if they abuse it?” concerns me, and the fact that there is any debate about fairness, or whether it is appropriate for some people to receive “special treatment” reveals, I feel, the undercurrent of non-disability-friendliness that is present within NZLARPs. A community that discriminates against people due to physical disability is hardly the kind of community that most people would want to be involved with. This is a difficult conversation to have, and a difficult one to begin.
Personally, I don’t believe that boffer combat should be the be all and end all of LARP. Anyone should be able to play in a game, even if that game involves combat, and still feel safe, feel like they are part of the game, and not feel as if they are being excluded due to their inability, or unwillingness, to take part in combat. This is obviously anecdotal, but I have heard it espoused more than once that if people don’t want to be involved in combat, they shouldn’t play in a game that involves combat. To which my response (now, at least) is “Why not?” There are people who don’t want to engage in political plot, and if they don’t build their character that way, they aren’t at any risk of losing their character over it. The same should go for combat. Speaking as an individual, and not on behalf of any other members of the GM team, I would like Crucible to be as engaging for people who don’t want to be combatants as those that do.
So. Do people agree with me? Disagree with me? This is a discussion that the community needs to have, and one that I feel strongly about. How does everybody else feel? I invite people to share their experiences with this matter. I only know what I have observed, and can’t speak for anyone else, so hearing from others will be vital for this discussion to carry any weight. We want LARPing to be an inclusive and friendly hobby, and this is an important step towards that.
